I miss my clubbing partner!!
paul s
well unfortunatly there probally isn't a service for these types of people. She might just have to keep trying til she finds someone that will accept her regardless of the impairment.
Live Life & Learn 2 Luv..No Hate
We'll not too many people would want to date someone with herpes. The only thing she can do is keep it secret for a while but to make sure she used protection so she doesnt spread it. Then if she does meet someone then after she gets to know them then she should let them know but giving that information when you first meet someone will make them run for cover. If she has that then she could have anything is prob what they think.
me
There are actually several different dating services for someone with an STD.
The one I like is for everyone, but also has a support room for Herpes and a safer sex/sti room for the general public.
http://www.club462.com has a blind cross matching system that will allow your friend to admit she has herpes, yet will not post it on her profile, instead, she will see icons to show who may or may not be open to her.
People with STD's tend to think they are alone - BUT THEY'RE NOT. Statistically, 1 in 4 north american women and 1 in 5 north american men has Herpes. Up to 80% of the population (male and female) will have some form of HPV over their lifetime. Most people do not know they have an STD because they have no symptoms, or mild symptoms.
The judgment of others is also isolating and makes people fear disclosure. Condoms, however, are not adequate protection and your friend should NEVER have sex with someone and keep her H a secret.
It can be a difficult transition, but the good news is that it will make her look at potential partners more seriously and have more value in herself. The other good news is that she knows, therefore, she is in the best postion to protect partners. Remember - 80% of people with an Std DON'T KNOW, so they are just happily passing it along and are probably full of ignorance and judgment thinking "not me". Those who know what they have can better protect their partners.
If you don't believe the statistics I have used - just go to the following links (the centres for disease control is one of them!)
Join club462 with your friend - because most people on there don't have an STD (or at least don't know), and that way you can still do things together and help support her through this difficult transition.
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Everything matters is a date,
so please read on for more about living with STDs for the life doing what ever we like ..
STDs
Among many others one of the STDs, caused by Treponema pallidium, a spiral shaped bacterium called a spirochete. Syphilis is spread from person to person. A person gets syphilis from direct contact with a syphilis sore on the body of an infected person. Sores occur at the site of infection, mainly on the external genitals, vagina, anus, or rectum. Sores can also be on the lips and in the mouth.
Signs and Symptoms of Syphilis
- Syphilis in adults progresses through 4 stages.
Primary, Secondary, Latent, (hidden), Tertiary (late) .
An infected person can easily pass the disease to a sex partner when first or second stage symptoms are present.
The first stage (primary syphilis) is marked by a very infectious sore, called a chancre. The chancre is usually firm, round, small and painless. It appears at the spot where the bacteria entered the body. Chancres last 1 to 5 weeks and heal on their own.
Without treatment, the spread of the bacteria through the blood causes the second stage (secondary syphilis), which is characterized by a rash that does not itch. The rash can appear as the chancre is fading, or it can be delayed up to 10 weeks. It often appears as rough, "copper penny" spots on the palms of the hands and bottom of the feet. It can also look like prickly heat or appear as small blotches, a bad case of acne, and moist warts in the groin, slimy white patches in the mouth, coin – sized dark circles, or chicken pox like bumps. Other symptoms are fever, swollen glands, sore throat, patchy hair loss, headaches, weight loss, muscle aches, and tiredness. Second – stage signs and symptoms last 2 to 6 weeks and clear up on their own.
If untreated, the infection progresses to a latent (hidden) stage during which symptoms disappear and the disease is no longer contagious. The bacteria remain in the body, though, and can begin to damage vital organs.
In about a third of untreated persons, the results of the internal damage show up years later in the late (tertiary) stage. Symptoms include paralysis, inability to coordinate movements, inability to feel pain, gradual blindness, dementia (madness) or other personality changes, impotence, blockage or ballooning of the heart vessels, tumors damage to knee joints, and deep sores on the feet. The damage may be serious enough to cause death.
source
http://www.fairpharma.com/syphilis.htm
Choose any 1 only
STDs carrier dating OR Healthy long Life
The dating addicted few are among the promoters to cause n spread STDs in society and it least matters to these addicted souls, what happens to the loving old parents or some more who care for them, ... ... ...
May The Creator of Life, Disease and ...
bless some common sense among all of us ...
David C
yes, she can find someone at www.positivesingles.com
tell her to check it out. there is a fee, however.
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