I've been reviewing some replys from teenage girls and I'm amazed at theser responses. It seems to me that some of these guys work really hard to manipulate their girlfriends into having unprotected sex. It sounds like DATE RAPE to me, but the girls don't really describe the event as date rape, they describe it as a "seduction" or being "swept away" in the passion. We need comprehensive sexuality education to deal with these issues!!!!
shayne
i'm a 15 year old girl, & i'm VERY pressured to have sex. it seems like you can't just hang out with a guy anymore. they expect it, now. there are just SO many girls now a days that give in, so boys think they all will, but i don't plan to. if i'm in a situation where i feel pressure to do something i don't want to, i get out of it. i don't want to be a pregnant teenager. i expect more out of my life, and more out of myself.
SUMMER 08 :)
at first i felt that way but i dont now {im 14} i had unprotected sex with my bf but i didnt see mothing wrong with it cause he is my bf wen i do hear about diseases it is a lilttle frighting and even babies but i have been pressur\ed to oral sex maybe not pressured but talked me into it and i did sOo ahaha idk =[
mariah honey
I think there is quite a lot of peer-pressure to have sex when you reach your later teens. It's like something that is 'expected' of you and most of the time it's hard to say no.
And as for condoms .. a lot of guys readily refuse to use them .. girls think their in love and just go along with unprotected sex, i think thats how many STDs and unwanted pregnancies occur.
Jailbait
(17) personally i never felt pressured into having sex or performing sexual activities because i wanted it anyway. my first time was quite enjoyable and my then-boyfriend didn't ask to ditch the condom or anything. however when it came a time when i wanted to have sex and a condom was not at hand, he refused to have sex because he didn't want to take any chances. personally i didn't really care because i was already "in the mood"
i've also never delt with any peer-pressure regarding sex (referring to one of the answers above) because i go to a pretty "open" school. people come and go and they can care less if you're a virgin or not. but honestly, life's just so much more interesting to me when sex is the topic of a conversation, it's an ongoer for sure.
when it comes to stds, me and my friends don't mind talking about it. we even make jokes of each other having herpes and whatnot when sharing food and drinks. it's all for the fun and relaxing atmosphere that we enjoy
i hope this helps and good luck!
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