guys please? ladies your opinions may help!!?

guys please? ladies your opinions may help!!?if a lady you like and want to start a relationship with tells you that she has been raped how would you react? if the first is ok how would you react if she then tells you that the rapist gave her a sexually transmitted disease (viral that is uncurable) how would you then react? would you hold it against her? or would you understand that it wasnt her fault?
the person in question is myself and i feel it was my fault, i just felt to embarrased to admit it. sorry

love
Of course it's not her fault. duh. How could someone hold that against her? They don't have to have sex with her, but they don't have to hold it against her.

Biri
Do you really think it was her fault that she got raped? Helloooooo... Of course you couldn't hold it against her. Just talk to her and you could go to the doc together and ask for advice. I would think that she is taking some type of medication for her disease but maybe ask if you could take something or what could you do so it wouldn't get on you too..

bsharpbflatbnatural
Unless you are already deeply in love with her, living around that virus would be very risky on your health. Find someone healthy.

Edith Guridi
I guess your safety is first. She should get tested for ALL STD. It was NOT HER fault she got raped, but you have to deal with the mess the rapist left behind. You could help her IF YOU WANT. But if you are not in the relationship, you are not responsible for her!!!

Josieb
I would be yuor friend but not hold the incident against you as your fault.

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