my husband visited a prostitute last night, how should i react pls pls help?

my husband visited a prostitute last night, how should i react pls pls help?I am a woman in my 30's and my husband is 7 yrs elder to me we have one child. In my opinion our sex life was very good and somewhat experimental too. However, last night my husband said he was going for a boys night with a friend and came in very late at night (3:00am) i somehow found out that he had visited a prostitute during his night out. I am very hurt, disappointed and not sure how to react. As far as I am aware this is the first time he has done something like this. Also, I am very concerned about STD's and HIV ....i don't know the details of his encounter at it is very recent so i am not sure if he used a condom. Also, in spite of a condom there are other nasty STDs, how early can i find out if he has contracted any of those. Also i am emotionally very hurt and disturbed...how should i deal with this pls pls help i am suffering every moment
Also i wonder if i should separate/divorce over this issue, I always think of my child when I think of separation in any way. But is this too much to swallow??
since every1 wants to know i found out as i was calling repeatedly on his cell and he did not pik his fone that is extremely unlinely of him, never happened in all these years i have known him....then i called his friend to ask where he was and later asked him again and they both had different answers then i told him i will pik him at the pub he was at & bring him home I told him i was outside the pub so just come out and thts when he had to admit he was elsewhr so clearly he was not honest he is a complete liar as far as this situation goes

Kassie
i somehow found out that he had visited a prostitute during....

How did you find out?

adeline
troll

auftrit
You "somehow found out that he had visited a prostitute during his night out" so you rushed here to Yahoo and created a new profile just so you could ask this question???

Come on Paula, even you have to admit that sounds a little weird.

ladybug
You know this to be true and you didn't kick his ass out yet?
I wouldn't be hurting cause i would be to busy packing his stuff.
Go for a blood test.No result won't take long.

*pisces*
tell him you're over him and move the hell out he won't even chase you because hes embarrassed by what he did
just move on

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