So recently we learned about sexually transmitted infections and I don't think I can ever have sex again?

So recently we learned about sexually transmitted infections and I don't think I can ever have sex again?Ok so for the past two weeks in my class, we have been learning about the reproductive stuff, and recently we had a few lectures on STIs. I must admit, I don't think I can ever trust any one enough to have sex with them any more. Knowing what all these STIs could do to your body and all the complications that could occur from them. Its just scary, it makes me wonder how can people have one night stands and sex in clubs and what not? Aren't they afraid of catching something?
Condoms don't protect you against all those diseases for example HPV, just so you know.
But lets say you're monogamous, how can you be sure about your partner? Is it really worth the risk? I don't know any more. =/

Tiktaalik
They probably do the smart thing and USE A CONDOM.

Gohaleg
You are about 200x or more likely to die of a car accident than from an STI. Does that mean you will never leave the house again?

Devon smith
I used to be the same way. Just use condoms. I used condoms with every girl. You ask the person about their sexual history, and ask them if they got tested.

Now that I'm with someone I know I want to be with for the rest of my life, and was STD free and had no sexual history, I don't have to wear a condom.
I got tested every time after every girl too, to make sure. And they were tested as well.

Michael
That's why one night stands are not a good idea. If ever doing that, use a condom -- and maybe have your hep shots up to date also.

There are many benefits to limiting your partners.

I think sex with love is just so much more exciting and fulfilling. Plus it is much safer.

Not everyone can be totally monogamous, but the less partners you have, the safer you will be. And monogamy is still the safest road to avoid STIs.

EDIT: Well, be with a person whose personality seems to be faithful and trustworthy.

Monogamy does exist, believe me. In a vain attempt to be "ex-gay" and on the advice of a couple pastors, I married a woman. We were together eleven years, and in that time I *never* cheated on her. Ever.

It's true, it is always a risk to trust. But human life, and love, always involves some risk.

But there are plenty of folk out there who are trustworthy, loving, and true. Don't despair of love. You are much too young for despair. Life is good. =)

P.S. -- On the other side of the equation, I know guys who have fooled around with, or had sex with (with condoms), many guys -- and they are disease free.

Illness is unpredictable. Just be as safe as you can, but, honor your need for love and touch too. And don't give up now in your young life, for heaven's sake. You are not the only young gay man who wants love and monogamy. Don't be afraid. Look around for guys like yourself.

dangus
Don't worry about condoms. You only live once!

Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments! Learn about different types of STDs and the effects on the body in both women and men. Sexually Transmitted Diseases Info Blog.

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